blessed to be a blessing
God's offer to us to share his blessing with others is how we find our deepest sense of personal meaning and satisfaction. Jesus said it this way: "Whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me and the gospel will save it" (Mark 8:35). This wasn't a call to drudgery and painful sacrifice as much as it was Jesus' way of saying, "Sir, catch a clue. If you really want to have a blast, then free up some time and money and go bring a smile to someone's face. Relieve someone's pressure. Surprise someone with a gift." Jesus mentions blessing as giving sight to the blind, captives being set free, debts being paid off, food for the hungry, friends for the lonely, meaningful employment for the discouraged and self-doubting, rest for the weary, and anything else that could be felt or touched on terra firma. The Tangible Kingdom! Blessing wasn't just nice things you said to make people forget about their problems. It was actually doing something about their problems.
p142-143, "The Tangible Kingdom: Creating Incarnational Community" (Halter & Smay; Jossey-Bass, 2008)